Professional Dominatrix Phoenix Steele shared an opinion on Facebook, “I’m sick of seeing Lifestyle Domme’s talk shit to a submissive just because he’s seen a ProDomme a few times!! Ladies that’s kink shaming-KNOCK IT OFF!!!”
My expanded response to that post is below.
I’ve been in the BDSM community for 20 years. I count professional dominatrices as some of my best friends, clients, and lovers. I’m familiar with both sides of this issue.
Over the years I’ve heard countless stories (and seen a few myself) about how professional dominatrices have been poorly treated by the BDSM community, and now I’m honestly shocked to hear that submissives also bear some burden for seeing professionals.
Los Angeles, CA — It is back to cruel season in Los Angeles as Torture Garden LA prepares for their return, Saturday, September 14th, 2019, 9:30 P.M., at the Globe Theater, 740 South Broadway in Downtown Los Angeles.
This marks the first return of the world’s largest international fetish club to the city of lost angels in 17 years. The night will include amazing international DJ’s and performers from London, New York, Spain and, of course, Los Angeles.
TGLA features special guest host Amanda Lepore, and onstage performances by Katrina Lilwall, Cynth Icorn, Ridge Gallagher, Maegan Machine, Embrace Chaos, Mako and The Infamous Boom Boom. Special appearances include Kyle Farmery, and Luke Harris.
Are you inundated with requests to chat? If you’re interested in monetizing your texts, whether you’re a Professional Dominatrix, or FinDom, or Fetish Model, or really anyone else, then FINmessage might interest you.
We talked with the founder of FINmessage to describe the service, and we’re including photos of some of the women who are using FINmessage to communicate with slaves and fans.
What is FINmessage?
FINmessage is a new kind of community and Chat Website. User can pay per message, pay per view and sending tributes. The Pro User, mostly “Findoms” right now, are verified. You can also upload photos, like and comment photos and also tip good photos.
Los Angeles, CA — Jay E. Moyes, A.K.A. Fetish Artist of FetishArtist.net is featured in the latest issue of Barely Evil. The award-winning magazine recently published an interview with Moyes along with recent works from the artist.
Presented by MyFreeCams.com and produced by the makers of BlueBlood.com, gracing the cover of Barely Evil is Ophelia Rain, along with Brandie Graves, Molly Winters and a graphic by Moyes that was once on display at La Luz de Jesus in Hollywood. The alternative-adult magazine covers “Wicked hot bad girls, punk troublemakers, devilish goth babes and tattoo pin-ups.”
New Orleans, LA – Registration has opened for DomCon New Orleans, the premier professional and lifestyle BDSM lifestyle convention. The expo is coming October 10-13, 2019, to the Astor Crowne Plaza Hotel, 739 Canal Street, in the heart of New Orleans.
DomCon New Orleans attracts Dominants, submissives, fetishists, leatherfolk and the kinky from all over the globe. The curious and experienced come for the latest innovations in fetish and bondage gear, classes in BDSM techniques, seminars on community, legal, and business issues and, of course, outrageous parties. All this is right in the French Quarter, with great food, adult entertainment, and a party atmosphere every night.
Mistresses of Ceremonies for DomCon NOLA 2019 are Lucile Ballbuster, Goddess Nyx, and Mistress Bossy Delilah. Guests of Honor and Special Guests are now being compiled.
OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA
2019 – Fetish artist Dirk Hooper has launched a new gallery
page and is now offering fine art prints for his KinkInk artwork. The KinkInk
style is artwork that has heavy inkwork, wild neon colors, and features
characters and situations that are about BDSM couples, kink, and fetish
said, “I returned to doing artwork about four years ago after a decade and
a half absence. What I’m producing now is the best art of my life. This KinkInk
style is fun, engaging, dynamic, sexy, and designed to appeal to a wide audience.
I feel strongly this is the type of artwork that I’ve spent a lifetime
KinkInk style is not just for the BDSM community. “Of course I want this
artwork to speak to people who are kinky, but I also want people who are
curious, or outright vanilla, to find something in my work that is welcoming or
West Hollywood, CA — Mistress Cyan has teamed up with The Tom Of Finland Foundation, Avatar Los Angeles, The SoCal Men’s Bondage Club, C-Men and more for Erotic City at the LA Pride Festival in West Hollywood this weekend.
Erotic City is an adults only area of LA Pride that celebrates the Leather and Fetish area of the community. Under the direction of Mistress Cyan, a CSW Board member, owner and Head Mistress of Sanctuary LAX and founder/executive producer of DomCon, Erotic City offers festival guests a wide array of experiences and entertainment.
During the day, Erotic City features interactive areas hosted by Sanctuary LAX, Avatar LA, The SoCal Mens Bondage Club and C-Men. Attendees get the opportunity to watch, learn and experience such things as bondage, flogging, erotic massage, pet play and so more in a safe environment.
North Hollywood, CA — Madame Margherite of Sanctuary LAX and DomCon will be the special guest of Christy Canyon on Vivid Radio, Wednesday, May 15th Noon to 1:00 P.M. Pacific Time. The show can be found on Channel 415 on Sirius XM Radio.
The sassy and classy Dominatrix from the east coast just wrapped up a successful week at DomCon Los Angeles and will be talking about her adventures at the expo, what it’s like at Sanctuary LAX, her love of making submissives into her pets, and what the kinky lifestyle has to offer.
I told three friends the other day that I wrote BDSM
erotica. I even gave them my pseudonym so they could read it. They are the 3rd,
4th and 5th people I’ve told since I started publishing my work in December.
I’m not out as a submissive to many people, obviously, and sharing my writing
essentially outs me, as it’s all about femdom and it wouldn’t take a genius to
put it together. But telling these friends felt right. These are good people:
the kind who see the weird in you and like you more for it. After telling them,
I quickly said: “Don’t think just because I write about it that I want it to
happen to me, ok? A lot of stuff is just for the story. It’s not me. Ok?”
I was lying. I want most what I write about to happen to me. And the things I think they would be most shocked by, the things I was thinking of when I said that to them: I especially want that. I want to be put over someone’s knee and spanked for not making the bed correctly. I want someone to make me eat oatmeal drenched in her piss. A part of me is ashamed of wanting that. And a larger part of me is ashamed for feeling that shame.
LOS ANGELES, CA – Celebrating over 15 years of kink, fetish, and BDSM, DomCon Los Angeles, the premier professional, and lifestyle domination expo, will come out swinging hard this week. The convention will be May 8th-12th at the Hilton Hotel LAX, 5711 West Century Blvd. in Los Angeles, CA.
“Attention LA! The Blonde Bombshell of Atlanta is in you!” Mistress of Ceremonies Goddess Samantha Tweeted. “From the ATL to LA! Are you ready? Here I come! I can’t wait to see my Domme sisters!”
Goddess Evil Opal will be visiting the eastern USA this spring with scheduled stops in New York City May 21st-23rd and Washington DC on May 25th. If you are interested in serving Goddess Opal you may contact her by email at Opal@EvilOpal.com or via her website at: EvilOpal.com/session-request
I have strong opinions on topics that are My passion. I want
to get right to the point, starting with the topic that’s My greatest passion…
What a beautiful fetish! Too bad that it has such a questionable reputation. It’s a huge taboo and I’m tired of keeping this wonderful fetish a secret. That will end now. I am the one who will break that taboo!
Obviously, each Dominatrix has her own ways of working but, I’m here to tell you My way and My outlook on these subjects! Grab your notebooks and get ready to be intrigued, here comes FinDom 101 with VonNette!
From strong bonds between subs and their Dommes, to
different kinks that are unique and must be treated with respect, I think it is
time that I shed some light on the
mystery called FinDom.
Alpha Dominatrix Domina Mari will be bringing her skillful hand to Toronto next weekend for a tour with Mistress Mystique starting April 24th and ending on the 26th.
Cunning and cruel, she spares no bottom. Sadistic and seductive, this femme fatale is devoted to nothing but leather and the spirit of divine pleasure. She has an insatiable hunger and curiosity to unveil your secrets and unearth your darkest desires. She will hurt your ego, en anglais et en français.
A rising star in the Canadian BDSM scene, Domina Mari asserts that her authenticity and unique approach is what keeps the clients at her knees. She is a big believer in D/s dynamics as a space for release and transcendence.
City of Dark Angels — DomCon Los Angeles, the world’s largest professional and lifestyle domination convention, is proud to welcome novelty company Bad Dragon as a new sponsor for the 2019 show.
Bad Dragon specializes in a far different type of silicone based life forms than science could speculate, spawning silicone pleasure products shaped like tentacles and alien creatures in a dark rainbow of unearthly colors. Their innovative products have been a hit with the fetish community and are a great fit for DomCon guests.
Mistress Cyan, Founder and Executive Producer of DomCon LA refused to reveal details of the bargain, simply insisting no mortal souls or were harmed in negotiations.
“I am a beautiful, slim, enticing dominatrix who you shall learn to worship.
I enjoy developing an ongoing relationship with my clients, sharing a journey in BDSM to explore, experience and embrace.
Whether you wish to feel the bite of my cane, smooth sensual domination, humiliation, being physically examined by my sounds, the depths of sensory play, or to experience sissification at the hands of an expert I can guarantee a unique experience that both of us shall enjoy.
All sessions are tailored to personal limits and tolerances and I make a point of talking to you to ensure that every session experience fulfils your needs.
I own Scotland’s largest house of Domination, Impact Therapies at Glasgow Dungeon, which has five very different chambers including traditional school room and tv room. I am now available on a regular basis and have more time to arrange regular sessions and to satisfy needy subs.
I have a soft sensual side and adore being worshipped and getting into deep sensory play sessions. There are so many senses I can manipulate from hard to soft and back again and I take great delight in watching a submissives reaction from being tickled with a feather through to electro play I can take you to the heights of subspace and back again.
Leather and latex are also passions of mine and I have quite the boot collection.
Africa disciplinarian Mistress Baton brings her considerable talents to North
America for a tour that will begin April 19 in Ottawa and conclude in Los
Angeles on May 8th. The extensive trip will include Toronto, New
York, Chicago, Houston, and San
When asked about how she feels about
traveling to North America she said, “I am incredibly excited, since this is my
first proper tour to North America. I’m impressed with the inquiries and
bookings I’ve received so far – the clients/bottoms are eloquent, informed and
the sessions will be challenging and fun. There aren’t many disciplinarians in
North America and I’m looking forward to introducing as many bottoms as
possible to my way of administering discipline.”
Mistress Baton has been chosen as a
Guest of Honor at DomCon LA this year. “DomCon will be a highlight, especially
as I’m very honored to be a Guest of Honor. But every bottom I play with will
provide their own highlight for me,” she said.
Los Angeles, CA — Spring is coming to Los Angeles. Flowers are blooming. Birds are singing. And soon, asses will be reddening. DomCon Los Angeles, the world’s largest professional and lifestyle domination convention will take charge May 8-12 at the Hilton LAX, 5711 West Century Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90045.
DomCon opens with seminars and classes on the professional domination side. Then on Thursday evening, May 9th, the exposition opens to the kinky public for the weekend.
Fetishists come from around the world to shop for the latest in bondage gear and fetish fashion, learn the latest from some of the best teachers in BDSM techniques, and of course, they’ll be there for some of the sexiest parties Los Angeles has to offer.
Mistresses of Ceremonies for DomCon LA 2019 are Miss Bettie Bondage, Mistress Madyson DeLaRough, and Goddess Samantha. Guests of Honor this year are Mistress Baton from South Africa, Fetish Performer Bella Bathory, Baroness Essex from the UK, Mistress Ellen, Miss Grey, Mistress Leigh, Director Ken Marcus, Lady Lila Stern, Pup Sam, and Mistress Simone Kross.