Gallery Showcase: Evil Opal

Evil Opal

Tampa Bay, Florida

 

 

Bio from Evil Opal

“I’m a very sensual Domina. That doesn’t mean I can’t dish out the pain – I’ve taken plenty of “pain sluts” to their limits. What it does mean is that I like to toy with ALL of my submissive’s senses during a scene – I might switch from whipping his ass to caressing him with a silk scarf as I hold my hand around his throat and murmur dangerous promises in his ear. I’ll very often put my panties on his head, or rub my fingers wet with my pussy juices around his mouth and nose so he can smell and taste me while I beat him, driving him even deeper into submissive headspace. That’s why a domination session with me is always a very erotic experience.

I’m also a huge tease with a super high sex drive so cuckolding comes very naturally to me. I have a big fetish for consensual non-consent and tremendous expertise with a strapon. Combined with my elegant feminine style this makes me very popular with girly boys. I adore makeup and lingerie and playing dress-up so using sissies like life-size Barbie dolls & turning them into my slutty little sex-toys is great fun for me.

I think being a mature Domina (I’m going on 50) gives me a special wisdom in guiding my subs. I know a lot of extremely talented young dommes but those extra decades give a lady so much wider of an experience with life. When I first started doing professional domination about ten years ago I was surprised at how many very young men sought my attentions. But now I recognize the allure to them of an older woman who knows what she wants and is confident in her own power.

I also find being a plus sized dominatrix a great asset. I’m lucky to have a beautifully proportioned body, with lush curves like something out of a Namio drawing. And I love using this to my advantage, doing things like facesitting and smothering men with my large natural breasts. I can make a man feel trapped using nothing but the weight and strength of my own body. Being a big lady lends itself to fun fantasies like giantess scenes and crushing too, which are some of my favorite types of clips to film.

There’s one other more unusual fetish that I’m very into and that is wet & messy play. I personally adore dressing up in sexy officewear or a lovely formal gown and then going swimming. Knowing people are out there getting off from looking at me all wet is a huge rush. And using messy things like food or mud to humiliate a sub can be so much fun! It brings such a playful sensual dimension to a scene that’s right up my alley as a sensually evil dominatrix.”

Top Dropping – Dommes Can Drop Too by Miss Kate

Yes, a Domme is a Real Human, with Real Human Emotions

By Feature Writer Miss Kate

I am sure anyone reading this is well aware of the term “sub dropping”. For those of you who are new, it is the state that can happen after a sub leaves subspace. During subspace, the body releases all type of feel good hormones and chemicals, often giving them a “high” feeling. It can last anywhere from hours to days. And they usually do not want to leave the wonderful blissful state they are in.

However, what goes up, must come down

As the sub’s endorphins drop, there can be a mixed bag of things going on from physical to emotional. A drop can happen even after just one session. They may get the blues, they may feel aches and pains, tiredness, and the list goes on. The way the endorphins leave the body so rapidly can be likened to a hangover or an opiate withdrawal. Sometimes, it can even lead into a depression. This is why aftercare is so very important. There are different degrees of drop, but I will save that for another time.

The Top Drop

What is often lesser known or talked about however, is Top dropping. Yes, Tops can drop. I will be honest, in my whole six-year career as a Pro-Domme, I had never even heard of Top drop. That is, until I dropped myself. I had no clue what the hell was going on. All I knew was that, out of nowhere, I got deeply upset. I started to rant and rave to a few close friends that I was a terrible Domme and that I was quitting altogether. I was truly baffled by my feelings. Until someone in my group privately messaged me and told me what was up! She said “Look, you’re fine. You’re just dropping.”. Of course, my natural reaction was, “What? No, I am not. Tops don’t drop”. She then gently explained to me how and why Tops can drop.

Well of course Tops can drop. Sometimes, it is easy to forget that we are, in fact, mere humans. Whether you are a lifestyle, pro, or both, sometimes it is easy for your ego to get inflated, especially when you are constantly being put on a pedestal. When you are constantly the one in the driver’s seat, calling all the shots, it is easy to go on a power trip. It itself can give you a high. A lifestyle Domme can feel it a bit more roughly because play sessions are going to have a huge element of intimacy to it. But even a Domme who is strictly pro can have an intense session where emotions run high, endorphins a-flowing adrenaline a-pumping. Afterwards, something just seems . . . amiss. I have heard Dommes describe it as feeling “weird” before.

Symptoms of  Top dropping?

Essentially, they are the same as a sub drop. Both Tops and subs experience euphoria during a session, and both can experience sadness, anxiety, and worry afterwards. But there is one glaring difference: Top drops often include feelings of guilt. Perhaps there are feelings of crossing a line, or that you may have been to rough, possibly you were a little bit too intense.

What Can a Top Do?

So, if aftercare is important in easing a sub out of subspace gently and hopefully minimizing the chance of a drop, what can a Top do to prevent or while dropping? I am not too sure if there are many preventive measures, per se, since you never know how a scene will play out. But while your dropping you must primarily recognize it for what it is; a drop. Take part in activities that engage you; read a book; watch a comedy; occupy yourself with your hobby; take general “me” time. This, too, shall pass. Do not think of giving in or up. Do not change your practise of doing things if it is what works for you. And if you are feeling super intense or depressed, communicate with your sub (if possible). Despite them being your submissive, they do realize you are human and have human emotions.

And lastly, just like you would make sure your sub was well hydrated and has had a healthy meal, make sure you do that yourself.

DommeLinx Welcomes Miss Kate as Editor and Writer

DommeLinx.com proudly welcomes Miss Kate as an editor and featured writer. Katie Jayne Kingsley, who is professionally known as Miss Kate comes with 10 years of experience as a sex worker and six of those years as a professional dominatrix.

“I am thrilled to be able to create & contribute content, as well as edit DommeLinx. DommeLinx is going to add a distinct voice to the femdom community and provide a unique platform for dommes to find important news, read relevant articles, opportunities to have themselves and their work featured and promoted, and the opportunity to actively contribute to the site themselves,” Miss Kate said.

Miss Kate’s passionate writing will lend authenticity to DommeLinx. “To me, this isn’t just another ‘femdom website.’ My aim is to present & provide high-quality content continuously and consistently. I want to hit on topics that are not talked about often, sensitive real-life issues that other sites may shy away from, and to offer different perspectives from a diverse pool of dommes.”

In addition to the original mission of DommeLinx to present news, interviews and galleries featuring dominatrix, the site will be expanding original content to including articles, in-depth profiles, industry information, and a few surprises.

DommeLinx will be actively seeking news, photos, and interviews with female dominants. The editors will also be looking for fresh voices that want to contribute to the site as well. Additional announcements on that front are coming soon.

If you are interested in more information or an interview with Miss Kate, please contact info@sightkey.com.  More information about DommeLinx is available at http://dommelinx.com.

 


 

Katie Jayne Kingsley, known professionally as Miss Kate, is a writer and professional dominatrix. She has been involved in female domination and professional work for the past 6 years. She also spent 10 years as an escort, webcam model, phone sex actress, fetish model, and most recently, an online pro-domme.

Miss Kate’s has a Business diploma and a diploma in Communications. She also has a BA (honours) in Criminology and certificates in Event Planning and Makeup Artistry, which is an amazing accomplishment considering she earned those accolades while coping with ADHD and battling a nasty and crippling 17-year drug addiction.

Now clean & sober, she writes with the same intense, fiery, and passionate heart that she conducts all her sessions. Her focus is to destigmatize sex work and advocate for sex worker’s rights.

Known as the Sadistic Sweetheart & Sex Worker Extraordinaire, Miss Kate is available for real-time sessions. You can also catch her on SkyPrivate at http://bit.ly/2rX5baU, offering physical and verbal humiliation sessions.

As a regular contributor and editor at DommeLinx.com, Miss Kate plans on educating, engaging, entertaining, and perhaps enlightening all the wonderful Dommes out there and those who love and serve them. At present, she is also a contributor at www.ocamgirl.com, www.kinkemagazine.com, and www.modernculturalreject.com.

Dirk Hooper Rebrands and Relaunches Female Domination Website DommeLinx

Professional fetish photographer Dirk Hooper has relaunched and rebranded the female domination website Dommelinx.com with a new mission and a considerable upgrade in promotion and content. He will be the owner and Editor in Chief of the website.

“I’m very excited about the possibilities of providing a new avenue for professional dominatrix, and female dominants in general, to share news, get quality information, and have a positive sympathetic site where they can get some promotion for their services or projects,” Dirk Hooper said.

In addition to the original mission of DommeLinx to present news, interviews and galleries featuring dominatrix, the site will be expanding original content to including articles, in-depth profiles, industry information, and a few surprises.

DommeLinx will be actively seeking news, photos, and interviews with female dominants. The editors will also be looking for fresh voices that want to contribute to the site as well. Additional announcements on that front are coming soon.

If you are interested in more information or an interview with Dirk Hooper, please contact info@sightkey.com.  More information about DommeLinx is available at http://dommelinx.com.

 


 

Dirk Hooper is a professional fetish photographer, published writer, podcasting producer and host, journalist for the fetish community, BDSM mentor, audiobook narrator and personal branding consultant. 

As a fine-art fetish photographer, Hooper’s work has been exhibited in England, the Netherlands, Belgium, China and all over the United States.  His work is part of the permanent collections of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University and the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago, Illinois. Dirk Hooper’s work has been published in magazines like Skin Two, Von Gutenberg, Fet Erotica and Sinical Magazine.  His work was published in the German hardcover art book “Fetish Fantasies: The Best of International Fetish Photography.” He has done professional photography for bands, books, posters and the adult film industry.  Hooper co-founded the alternative modeling site Toxic Goddess.  He offers his photography services for portraits and commercial projects.

Hooper’s articles have recently been published at Business Insider, Inc. Magazine, the Huffington Post, Slate Magazine, The Sporting News, MSN Sport, and Quartz. He has won the Quora Top Writer award for the past two years. He has also been published as a comic writer, a poet and numerous copywriting assignments for professional and private clients. He is currently working on an erotic novel and a non-fiction book about social networking.

Dirk Hooper is the Host and Executive Producer of “The Fetish Show.”  He has also recently launched a new podcast about success and inspiration titled, “The Dirk Side.” Hooper has been podcasting since 2005 and has produced hundreds of hours of shows over several networks. His first audiobook narration was for the Suzanne Steele novel “Glazov.”

Dirk Hooper does journalism for the BDSM and fetish community through The Fetish Show News, FETISHWEEK articles, the Daily Fetish Chronicle and freelance writing.  Hooper’s award-winning website, http://www.DirkHooper.com features a gallery of his work, informational articles and is the home of “FETISHWEEK.” 

Hooper’s inspiration for his work is an extension of his interests and experience in the BDSM and fetish community.  He is a BDSM mentor and has helped guide or train both dominants and submissives.

Hooper works as a consultant on personal branding, social networking, SEO, copywriting, design and marketing through his Sexy Networking business at http://SexyNetworking.com

Interview: Elena De Luca

Elena De Luca

New York City

Elena De Luca

 

How did You get into professional domination?

I had a friend who was a pro domme and she recommended I try going pro because I was between jobs. I started working as a Professional Dominatrix shortly after and I’ve never looked back. 

 

What attracted You to the profession?

I’ve been attracted to domination for a very long but never had much exposure to it. I thought I was vanilla until I learned that what I was doing was definitely not vanilla.

Once I got a little exposure to the world of BDSM I felt like I had found my calling. It was just perfect for me.

 

What cities have You worked in?

I am based in New York City but I spend a lot of time in Los Angeles, followed by Dallas and Austin. I have also made stops in San Francisco, San Diego, D.C. and San Antonio.

I also have upcoming plans to make my debuts in Philadelphia and Chicago very soon.

I enjoy a lot of travel but NYC will always be my homebase.

 

Would you consider yourself a lifestyle dominatrix?

I would. I don’t date submissive men but I do play in my personal life and I do date men who can be a partner in dominating submissives for both of our enjoyment.

 

How long have you been a professional dominatrix?

I have been a Pro Domme for about a decade.

 

How are you different now than you were when you started?

I’ve learned sooooo much over the years. I have grown in huge ways as a person and a dominant. My skills have are exponentially more developed now and my style has changed.

I used to think the only way to be a strong dominant was to be the meanest person possible and hit the hardest all the time. Now I understand there are so many other ways to inflict pain that don’t have to include physical punishment.

 

Elena De LucaWhat types of sessions do you specialize in?

I specialize behavior modification. As a dominant I believe it is my responsibility to better my submissives. I use a lot of military boot camp and disciplinarian style tactics.

 

How are you different from other professional dominatrix?

Every mistress is inherently different. I think that my personal brand of sensual and strict w/ a lack of empathy and a focus on improving you makes me different.

 

How would you describe a typical session?

There is no such thing as a typical session. Every session is a brand new experience because my session plan depends on my mood and current interests. The interaction then depends on our chemistry.

The way it is all received depends on the slave’s mood, emotional state and current interests. All of this affects how I conduct the session.

 

What is your style? Are your sessions more strict, or more fun?

I like to think my sessions are fun but I am always very strict. I require a high level of protocol from my submissives.

When they are on top of their training I am having fun and I will laugh and smile.

 

What is your opinion of the business today?

It’s evolving so much all the time. It’s becoming so mainstream and at the same time it is under attack so often that it’s almost hard to keep up with what we can talk about and what we need to hide.

It’s really a guessing game each day what the state of the business is. It’s had a lot of up and downs lately with Fifty Shades of Grey and the current political climate.

 

If you had advice for someone just getting into professional domination, what would you tell them?

This is not a way to make quick money. You need to work very hard to hone your skills and develop and maintain a positive brand image.

 

What advice would you have for a submissive who is trying to get in touch with you to set up a session?

Read my website carefully. Pay attention to my social media. All of your questions are answered if you take notice.

Also, use the contact form on my website. I list all the things required of you there. Just pay attention and follow the directions, they are right in front of you.

 

 

Do you accept personal slaves?

I do but very rarely. I am extremely picky. Having someone that involved in your day-to-day life is like dating.

I need to have to enjoy your presence and know that you are skilled enough for me not to need to micromanage you.

 

Do you attend fetish balls, conventions or events?

I don’t go out much in NYC to the parties but once in a while I’ll attend an event to support a friend.

I love attending DomCon, both LA and New Orleans. I have been a Guest of Honor in LA and a Mistress of Ceremonies at the inaugural New Orleans convention. 

 

Do you offer videos, photo sets, online chatting, etc. in addition to in-person sessions?

I do. Links and info on how to get all of these and how to book online sessions can all be found on my website.

I offer phone and webcam sessions on NiteFlirt. I sell my clips on NiteFlirt, ManyVids, Clips4Sale, FascistFemDom.com and FetishMovies. 

 

What is something that almost no one knows about you?

One of my favorite hobbies is to crochet.

 

What are your plans for the future?

I plan to keep dominating for as long as being a professional makes me happy.

I plan to expand myself as a producer and continue creating sexy, kinky porn until I am too senile to find the camera.

 

Anything you’d like to add?

If things doesn’t tell you enough about who I am as a person start following my social media accounts on twitter, instagram, snapchat and tumblr. @elenadeluca

 

Links for more on Elena De Luca: 

NYDominatrix.com

Clips4Sale.com/44998

Domina Bast

Interview with Domina Bast

Domina Bast

Portland Oregon

Domina Bast

 

How did You get into professional domination?

 

It was after I had been a bottoming for a local shibari wiz. While I found some of the pressure points to be pleasing, I also found myself bored by not being in control. He mentioned that I would make a good top, and that planted the seed in my mind. A couple weeks later I was showing an acquaintance of mine a painting I had done of a woman seated on top of a mound of numerous naked men. After he looked at the painting he asked me if I had ever considered being a Dominatrix, because he knew one who was looking for an apprentice. It was too serendipitous to pass up. I dug right in. It quickly became clear I was a natural sadist. I continued my mentoring until I was released into the professional world.

 

What attracted You to the profession?

 

It’s in the shadows of society yet I can tell most people. When pedestrians meet me in vanilla life, they get the impression of a charming, cool as a cucumber, albeit adorable, young woman. When I tell them what I do, they are always taken aback, followed by intense curiosity.This is a profession that allows me to express a side of myself that I enjoy keeping separate. What is forbidden, is fun. I love seeing high profile men shake when they walk through the door. I love how their mouths are always a bit dry from nerves.The arousal that comes from fear is fantastic. Also, I just love watching men in a state pleasurable pain. It gives me a certain warm zingy feeling like nothing else and it allows me to exercise my innate creativity. 

 

What cities have You worked in?

 

Portland, but I have a short term goal to become mobile soon and plan on making travel a regular part of my schedule.  

 

Where are You located now?

 

Portland, Oregon

 

How are You different now than You were when You started?

 

I’m not too terribly different, but I can say I am more evolved in many ways. As a business woman, and in my personal day to day activities I am more thorough and confident. I’m in a near constant state of ruminationmover the sexual and non-sexual power dynamics between people, and what it is that ultimately leads subs to contact me. 

 

What types of sessions do You specialize in?

 

CBT/Creative torture, Sissification (“girl” time), and humiliation through acts (as opposed to verbal).

 

Domina BastHow are You different from other professional dominatrix?

It goes without saying every Domme is different, but I am a bit younger than the average Domme. There is an advantage to being older in this profession and I love that, but I’ve jumped in a bit early. That is mostly because I am confident in my abilities and I had a great mentor. The other noticeable trait that often sets me apart is that I’m not always willing to sacrifice my femininity to fit into the classic leather clad, Hellraiser-chic S&M mold we’re all accustom to. Sometimes I am, but on my terms. It obviously holds it’s place (and do not get me wrong, I love Hellraiser and I love leather), but truly I revel in the thought of ball busting while wearing my favorite sun dress, then heading over to a cafe or cocktail bar still humming from the session, surrounded by patrons who are none the wiser as to what I’ve just done. If I want to trample you in a schoolgirl skirt, there will be no arguing. In short, I enjoy blending my girl next door charm with my sadistic side. 

 

How would You describe a typical session?

 

I wouldn’t, it’s a secret. But you can catch glimpses from my website under the tab Happy Boys

 

What is Your style? Are Your sessions more strict, or more fun?

 

It really depends on the dynamic that evolves between myself and the sub. But I’d say mine err on the side of fun, often therapeutic. Getting into this I accepted that some sessions would be light and playful, while some would be heavy and more serious. I enjoy the entire spectrum and I’m prepared either way.  

 

What is Your opinion of the business today?

 

I’ve been watching this underworld of BDSM/FemDomme slowly integrate itself into normal society, or more specifically youth culture, for a few years now. Once a taboo topic becomes normalized within youth culture, it’s in the first phase of becoming an accepted part of the wider population. I noticed it really started to pop up in the online fashion industry. I’d like to see the numbers on how many pink faux leather “Daddy” chokers were sold in 2016. It may not seem like true BDSM but it’s easy to see where this is all going in the next 25 years. I think the Professional Dominatrix industry will definitely feel the effects of this shift. 

 

If You had advice for someone just getting into professional domination, what would You tell them?

 

Never do anything out of your comfort zone, and be wary that fetishists aren’t always submissives.

 

What advice would You have for a submissive who is trying to get in touch with You to set up a session?

 

Follow the directions on my Contact page. Don’t be afraid to give me too much information in your introduction email. It’s much more annoying if I have to probe you for information. In fact, I probably wont try at all. Do your part. 

 

Do You accept personal slaves?

 

Not at this time. 

 

Do You attend fetish balls, conventions or events?

 

As much as I can, yes, and only if they sound interesting. 

 

Do You offer videos, photo sets, online chatting, etc. in addition to in-person sessions?

 

I do offer skype sessions. I would be open to discussion in regards to other forms of communication. 

 

What is something that almost no one knows about You?

 

I do a set of naked planks every night before bed.

 

What are Your plans for the future?

 

To Dominate subs all around the world, continue my education in and out of school, obtain a Chinese wedding bed, and explore my gifts so I can ultimately help better the lives of others.

 

Links for more on Domina Bast

DominaBast.com

Fetlife – DnaBast

Instagram – @DnaBast

Amazon Wishlist

 

Over 1600 Kink Lovers Flock to DomCon LA 2017

Los Angeles, CA – DomCon Los Angeles, the world’s premier professional and lifestyle domination convention was a huge success this year with an attendance of over 1600 people. The crowd was filled with BDSM enthusiasts, the kink curious, and high profile adult stars Nina Hartley, Irene Boss and Jewel Marceau, just to name a few..

Walking about the convention floor were fetish models wearing latex catsuits, dresses and hoods. Dominatrixes were clad in custom leather and boots. Vendors offered novel and perverse sex toys, along with electrifying fetish fashions. In the crowd were cosplayers, human pets in a variety of animal costumes, and elegant cross dressers. Regularly appearing onstage were rope bondage suspensions, whip demonstrations, spanking and burlesque dances.

“This was Flirt4Free’s first time attending DomCon, and it was such an amazing and fulfilling experience,” said community outreach manager, Karly Kroft, Fetish Community Manager of Flirt4Free. “We were able to recruit some really great fetish broadcasters who we are very excited to have on our network. The connections we made are priceless, and we were so grateful for the warm and engaging welcome from the Kink Community!”

“On behalf of myself, the staff and volunteers of DomCon LA, vendors, and our special guests, thank you so much for coming,” said Mistress Cyan. “We are grateful to everyone who came, and participated. Our kind thanks go out to the army of volunteers that make this event possible, and to our sponsors, Whiplr, Kink.com, Stockroom, and AVN.”

Mistress Cyan and the DomCon board are making strides in debuting a DomCon London or Australia event in the future. The next expo is DomCon New Orleans in October 5th-8th, which will include a fetish parade down Bourbon Street. Go to DomConNOLA.com  to learn more.

Photos courtesy of SJ Studio 1 Photography, www.SJStudio1.com.

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