Elena De Luca
New York City
How did You get into professional domination?
I had a friend who was a pro domme and she recommended I try going pro because I was between jobs. I started working as a Professional Dominatrix shortly after and I’ve never looked back.
What attracted You to the profession?
I’ve been attracted to domination for a very long but never had much exposure to it. I thought I was vanilla until I learned that what I was doing was definitely not vanilla.
Once I got a little exposure to the world of BDSM I felt like I had found my calling. It was just perfect for me.
What cities have You worked in?
I am based in New York City but I spend a lot of time in Los Angeles, followed by Dallas and Austin. I have also made stops in San Francisco, San Diego, D.C. and San Antonio.
I also have upcoming plans to make my debuts in Philadelphia and Chicago very soon.
I enjoy a lot of travel but NYC will always be my homebase.
Would you consider yourself a lifestyle dominatrix?
I would. I don’t date submissive men but I do play in my personal life and I do date men who can be a partner in dominating submissives for both of our enjoyment.
How long have you been a professional dominatrix?
I have been a Pro Domme for about a decade.
How are you different now than you were when you started?
I’ve learned sooooo much over the years. I have grown in huge ways as a person and a dominant. My skills have are exponentially more developed now and my style has changed.
I used to think the only way to be a strong dominant was to be the meanest person possible and hit the hardest all the time. Now I understand there are so many other ways to inflict pain that don’t have to include physical punishment.
What types of sessions do you specialize in?
I specialize behavior modification. As a dominant I believe it is my responsibility to better my submissives. I use a lot of military boot camp and disciplinarian style tactics.
How are you different from other professional dominatrix?
Every mistress is inherently different. I think that my personal brand of sensual and strict w/ a lack of empathy and a focus on improving you makes me different.
How would you describe a typical session?
There is no such thing as a typical session. Every session is a brand new experience because my session plan depends on my mood and current interests. The interaction then depends on our chemistry.
The way it is all received depends on the slave’s mood, emotional state and current interests. All of this affects how I conduct the session.
What is your style? Are your sessions more strict, or more fun?
I like to think my sessions are fun but I am always very strict. I require a high level of protocol from my submissives.
When they are on top of their training I am having fun and I will laugh and smile.
What is your opinion of the business today?
It’s evolving so much all the time. It’s becoming so mainstream and at the same time it is under attack so often that it’s almost hard to keep up with what we can talk about and what we need to hide.
It’s really a guessing game each day what the state of the business is. It’s had a lot of up and downs lately with Fifty Shades of Grey and the current political climate.
If you had advice for someone just getting into professional domination, what would you tell them?
This is not a way to make quick money. You need to work very hard to hone your skills and develop and maintain a positive brand image.
What advice would you have for a submissive who is trying to get in touch with you to set up a session?
Read my website carefully. Pay attention to my social media. All of your questions are answered if you take notice.
Also, use the contact form on my website. I list all the things required of you there. Just pay attention and follow the directions, they are right in front of you.
Do you accept personal slaves?
I do but very rarely. I am extremely picky. Having someone that involved in your day-to-day life is like dating.
I need to have to enjoy your presence and know that you are skilled enough for me not to need to micromanage you.
Do you attend fetish balls, conventions or events?
I don’t go out much in NYC to the parties but once in a while I’ll attend an event to support a friend.
I love attending DomCon, both LA and New Orleans. I have been a Guest of Honor in LA and a Mistress of Ceremonies at the inaugural New Orleans convention.
Do you offer videos, photo sets, online chatting, etc. in addition to in-person sessions?
I do. Links and info on how to get all of these and how to book online sessions can all be found on my website.
I offer phone and webcam sessions on NiteFlirt. I sell my clips on NiteFlirt, ManyVids, Clips4Sale, FascistFemDom.com and FetishMovies.
What is something that almost no one knows about you?
One of my favorite hobbies is to crochet.
What are your plans for the future?
I plan to keep dominating for as long as being a professional makes me happy.
I plan to expand myself as a producer and continue creating sexy, kinky porn until I am too senile to find the camera.
Anything you’d like to add?
If things doesn’t tell you enough about who I am as a person start following my social media accounts on twitter, instagram, snapchat and tumblr. @elenadeluca
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