Thank Heaven for the Professional Dominatrix! by Dirk Hooper

Professional Dominatrix Phoenix Steele shared an opinion on Facebook, “I’m sick of seeing Lifestyle Domme’s talk shit to a submissive just because he’s seen a ProDomme a few times!! Ladies that’s kink shaming-KNOCK IT OFF!!!”

My expanded response to that post is below.


I’ve been in the BDSM community for 20 years. I count professional dominatrices as some of my best friends, clients, and lovers. I’m familiar with both sides of this issue.

Over the years I’ve heard countless stories (and seen a few myself) about how professional dominatrices have been poorly treated by the BDSM community, and now I’m honestly shocked to hear that submissives also bear some burden for seeing professionals.

It’s time to stop.

Interview with FemDom Messenging Site FINmessage

Are you inundated with requests to chat? If you’re interested in monetizing your texts, whether you’re a Professional Dominatrix, or FinDom, or Fetish Model, or really anyone else, then FINmessage might interest you.

We talked with the founder of FINmessage to describe the service, and we’re including photos of some of the women who are using FINmessage to communicate with slaves and fans.

What is FINmessage?

FINmessage is a new kind of community and Chat Website. User can pay per message, pay per view and sending tributes. The Pro User, mostly “Findoms” right now, are verified. You can also upload photos, like and comment photos and also tip good photos.

Feature Gallery: Miss Lila Sage

Miss Lila Sage
Los Angeles, California, USA

About Miss Lila Sage

“I am Miss Lila Sage, psychological seductress, and sensual sadist.

My work as a lifestyle Mistress has been featured in Playboy magazine, LA Fashion Week, and various BDSM events around the globe.

I believe everything is in the minutiae and use my keen powers of observation to intuit exactly what buttons to push to get the reactions I crave.

As a well-read and cultured lady, I desire intellect and thoughtful conversation and when I lose interest I am sure to have a gag handy. My most powerful tool in my arsenal is my voice.

Travel News: Domina Mari Visits Toronto April 24-26th

She may be petite but she packs a punch.

Alpha Dominatrix Domina Mari will be bringing her skillful hand to Toronto next weekend for a tour with Mistress Mystique starting April 24th and ending on the 26th.

Cunning and cruel, she spares no bottom. Sadistic and seductive, this femme fatale is devoted to nothing but leather and the spirit of divine pleasure. She has an insatiable hunger and curiosity to unveil your secrets and unearth your darkest desires. She will hurt your ego, en anglais et en français. 

A rising star in the Canadian BDSM scene, Domina Mari asserts that her authenticity and unique approach is what keeps the clients at her knees. She is a big believer in D/s dynamics as a space for release and transcendence.

Feature Gallery: Mistress Felice

Mistress Felice
Glasgow, Scotland

Bio for Mistress Felice

From Mistress Felice,

“I am a beautiful, slim, enticing dominatrix who you shall learn to worship.

I enjoy developing an ongoing relationship with my clients, sharing a journey in BDSM to explore, experience and embrace.

Whether you wish to feel the bite of my cane, smooth sensual domination, humiliation, being physically examined by my sounds, the depths of sensory play, or to experience sissification at the hands of an expert I can guarantee a unique experience that both of us shall enjoy.

All sessions are tailored to personal limits and tolerances and I make a point of talking to you to ensure that every session experience fulfils your needs.

I own Scotland’s largest house of Domination, Impact Therapies at Glasgow Dungeon, which has five very different chambers including traditional school room and tv room. I am now available on a regular basis and have more time to arrange regular sessions and to satisfy needy subs.

I have a soft sensual side and adore being worshipped and getting into deep sensory play sessions. There are so many senses I can manipulate from hard to soft and back again and I take great delight in watching a submissives reaction from being tickled with a feather through to electro play I can take you to the heights of subspace and back again.

Leather and latex are also passions of mine and I have quite the boot collection.

I look forward to meeting you…”

Feature Gallery: Evelyn Milano

Evelyn Milano
Denver, Colorado

 

 

Bio for Evelyn Milano

Evelyn Milano is an Elite Sadistic Humiliatrix located in Denver Colorado, but available for travel around the world. She has been a Lifestyle Dominant for a decade and a half and has been a Professional Dominatrix for the past ten years. Besides real-time sessions, she also offers an impressive and continually expanding catalog of video clips, findom sessions, and other items.

Feature Gallery: Mistress Taylor Knight

Mistress Taylor Knight

Florida, USA

 

Bio for Mistress Taylor Knight

My sessions are held in both Sunny South FL and NYC depending on which home I am staying in at the time. Both have fully equipped dungeon, throne, equipment for military training from the BEST & are VERY private. My sessions are held Monday Through Friday from 10am-10pm revolving around my modeling schedule.

Interview with Mistress Olivia Vexx

  1. How did You get into professional domination?

After years of social play in my teens and twenties as well as being in kinky relationships I chose to offer my skills professionally. Knowing a lot of people (primarily men) who would not be able to or would not want to bring kink into their personal relationship made me realize there was a void to be filled.

2. What attracted You to the profession?

Being a kinkster myself I was attracted of course by the nature of the “work”. But there is a creative and psychological element to each session; an opportunity to intuit where that person needs to go. Knowing I brought them there is very satisfying.

3. What cities have You worked in?

I have lived, played and worked in NYC, Atlanta, Raleigh, Charlotte, NYC again, New Orleans and now Boise. I do enjoy the portable nature of being a Pro Domme and exploring life in new places. But once I am settled in a city that is where my play space stays.

It’s Mixtrix’ World by Miss Kate

She could own you, if she wanted to.

It’s Her World, She Just Lets You Live in It

A Profile on MixTrix by Miss Kate

I don’t idolize Dommes because I’m afraid that I’m going to unconsciously (or consciously) rip off their style. This isn’t to say that I don’t admire or enjoy other Dommes work. I would be lying if I said I didn’t. There are a handful of Dommes that I admire greatly and who inspire me to explore things I may not have previously thought of. MixTrix is probably number one on my list of Dommes that inspire me. She so graciously allowed me to ask her a few questions on her world as a cruel with a sense of humor lifestyle and pro Domme.